Leaving the nest
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Think about
your own nest leaving
Well this all part of growing up
you have got to let them go at some point
This is it....... This is that time....

It hurts....
but REMEMBER what it was like when you left home
for some it was easy
for some, stress and conflict.

Just be there
to talk and listen
Points to remember..
Talk about the good times you have had....
the pleasures the memories

Offer help....
but be prepared to stand back
or jump in, whatever is needed at a moment's notice.

Your actions
can have reactions
Everything you do
has secondary consequences


Considering secondary consequences
is the hallmark of wisdom.


Be flexible
and open
In simple words ...
be aware of what you say in this time
and keep the door wide open!

(It allows both the coming and going as needed!)


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Looking back after having three children
I have learnt sooo much of not so much of what to do
but what not to do.

I initially brought my children up in the knowledge that I had
which was how I had been brought up
and so my parents before me same thing.

Now I see it so differently
in that I would now understand the individuality
and personality of the child and their talents
and I would focus on bringing that out
not treating everyone the same....

Our children are never really ours
they are a gift to show the way to and then enjoy
the adults they have become.


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