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Grief is normal Grief is the normal response
to any important loss in life.

It occurs regardless whether
prolonged illness,
a sudden accident, or
the unexpected ....      ends in death.

The death of a pet means the loss of a mate
(a genuine non-judgmental love source.)

....
  And if you're on a mine site,
    
 then it can feel doubly difficult.

      Make mine management aware
      and do not hide it ....
      these can be very trying times
      and you may need time and space.


Guilt can be so lousy
Guilt ...
It's a word that brings terrible feelings
of loss, horror anger and helplesness,
especially when you have had to make the decision
to have your pet put down,
made worse if you have to do it
from a remote site.

All the "if only's" ...

If only I had noticed sooner....
if only I had waited longer.......
if only I had more money and had gone to the vet earlier......
if only I had gone to a better vet.

We keep beating ourselves up.

A way forward
So, be kind to yourself,
know that the reason you were so close to your pet
was because you loved and cared for him or her.

Write down your feelings of grief
if you can't talk about them ....
just keep getting those feelings out
' till it doesn't hurt anymore.


Supporting stuff

 

rainbow dogs

That's Toto & me  
  This is a sympathy card
from an 8 year old.
Even at this age,
understanding grief and
ways of dealing with it,
is important.

Her dog Ti and
my dog Toto had both
been put to sleep
after a series of long
and sad illnesses.

The card has lots of
bones and paws as they
run around together in
heaven with rainbows
and blue skies forever.
toto

Other useful stuff ....
 
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The Rainbow Bridge - Inspiration when someone has passed on.

There is a West Australian pet crematorium and cemetery service from a budgie to a great dane or a kangaroo, and soon horses that are special, from Esperance to Kununurra.
There are similar services, worldwide.


When ready, if considering a replacement pet, remember
services like the RSPCA or the Cat Haven.

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